Boy,
oh, boy, in writing this I realize just how little I understood of what Andrew
was dealing with day to day. Despite all that he was going through he rarely complained.
Andrew mostly wanted to try to deal with things as he saw fit. I think we tried to
let him do that much of the time. I would go along with him. The anxiety always
building in the background and then I would see from the weekly medicine case
that he had not taken his meds for a day or two or three and I would lose it.
He hated taking those meds. He hated
being “sick” and often said that he was not sick. I think this was the part
that I didn’t understand. I didn’t understand how hard it was (read that
impossible on some level) for Andrew to think of himself as sick or as needing
medication. It was really unacceptable to him.
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